When Kids Speak Harshly: Gentle Ways to Guide Their Words

Children often use harsh language either to fit in with their peer group or by mimicking behavior they think is "cool." Peer influence plays a significant role in shaping their behavior. However, using harsh language can harm relationships and create negative habits. So, what should parents do?

  1. Open Communication
    Talk to your child about why they are using harsh language. Listen to their explanation without judgment. Open communication helps children feel heard and understood.
  2. Explain the Consequences
    Explain the impact of using harsh language, both on themselves and others. Teach them the importance of maintaining politeness in communication.
  3. Monitor and Reward
    Keep track of your child's language development. Reward them when they successfully use positive language. Rewards can be praise or something they enjoy.

Harsh language can be prevented through good communication and proper guidance. Be a positive role model for your child and help them build good language habits.

Other News

Choosing the Right School: National vs. International Curriculum

Choosing a school for your child is not a decision to be made lightly. For…

Quality Time That Counts: Making School Holidays Meaningful

School holidays are the perfect time for families to take a break from routines and…

A Week to Remember: IICS DP1 Live-In in Yogyakarta

Earlier this year, DP1 students from IPEKA Integrated Christian School (IICS) took part in a…

SNBT 2025: A Testament to Value-Based Education in Christian Schools

The National Selection Based on Test, commonly known as SNBT (Seleksi Nasional Berdasarkan Tes), is…